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Tell me this.. Do straight men watch Tranny Porn? Or is my man in the Gay Closet? My fiance revealed that he likes Tranny porn (looks like a girl but they've got a d**k and almost all of them have man hands and the man voice, it freakin' creeps me out) Anyway... he got me to watch it. It does nothing for me! I was like WHY do you like this? and he said it's cuz of the shock value 'THAT's a man?? Looks like a chick!' and that he's not gay. I am not sure what to think. Other than FAKE looking boobs and all the slut make up, you can TELL ITS A GUY, and my man is getting off on that?? Are strange fetishes like this OK or should I be worried??? | | He's gayer than Elton John | Names to call my friends (as a joke lol)? well, some of us in my group joke around saying things like. shutup ya tranny and call each other names. im out of ideas LOL so can you hive me some eg. fat slut, tranny, jealous mutt. (lol we only joke when we say these things) please help! | | rahul | Am I a tranny? Female-to-male or completely normal? HELP PLEASE.? Okay, so I'm 19 and female-bodied. I'm pretty openly pansexual (like bisexual, but without the gender binary) and am mostly attracted to androgyny (in all genders).
I'm fine with my sexuality, but recently have been questioning my gender - am I transsexual, genderqueer, or is this normal? I know I don't need labels, but helping me to identify with a group of people may help me and give me people to turn to. Here's the deal;
I hate my boobs. As in, I like /boobs/, but just not on me. They don't feel right, even though they are small. Like they shouldn't be there. So I bought a comfortable binder shirt, which I wear whenever I go out (please don't tell me the health issues with this), and feel a lot more like /me/ with a flat chest. Kind of like, how when I was a UK size 18 I didn't feel myself, then I (safely) lost weight and got to a comfortable 12, and feel more like my body is right. I still have a problem with my wide hips though.
I like to wear eyeliner and skirts and short shorts and the occasional dress. I'm not /girly/ (more vintage androgynous glam-rock-esque), but still feel a little bit like I'm, well, a crossdresser at prom. There's not really a way of describing it. I've always been like that - wore boys' school uniforms, refused dresses and only wore guys' clothes 'til about age 14. Then I started feeling like I could be a bit daring and wear a skirt.
When my friends joke that I'm a guy, or I get mistaken as one, I feel brimming with happiness rather than embarrassment.
Last thing I can think of now is really rather embarrassing. Sex-related. I occasionally (safely!) have casual sex with males and females, yet I think more along the lines of the more male "I've scored!" than the more female "I'm a slut". Also, I enjoy being on the receiving end (submissive) than the giving end (dominant), though occasionally switch, and am I bit of a masochist. The one thing that sticks in my mind is the best sexual experience I've ever had; my lover decided to spontaneously give me some dirty talk, but referred to me as male (with male... attributes) on a whim. Biggest turn-on ever.
Now, I've a couple of genderqueer friends, but I don't feel comfortable talking it out with them unless they think I'm 'copying' or something (guyish, I know), and I don't want to tell family/friends unless I myself am sure. Is this normal for a girl, is it just being a bit of a tomboy, or something else?
Cheers for the help~ | Don't confuse gender identity and sexual orientation they are separate issues.
I would suggest you speak with a gender therapist. You can find a list of some here:
www.DrBecky.com/therapists.html
If you don't want to go private, you will have to go through the NHS. My friend Diane explains the UK system here:
answers.yahoo.com/question/index;… | How come there is no real talk shows hosts in asia, their talk shows are more like games shows or comedy show? asian talk shows only invite celebrities, they are never about petty issues of peoples individuals problems, like my guy hits me, or my teen is a slut, or my wife is a tranny,racism . or my mom does porn like the kinda talk show hosts they have in the western world
Asian talk shows are more like game shows or comedy shows, western talk shows are about issues like homosexuality, acceptance, pregant teens etc, controversial topics.
also I live in asia.
is it because Asians are just to quiet and sensitive and all about saving face right?
an asian talk show host might seem arrogant in east asian culture no? | | culture, but soon they will have an asian oprah | So Rihanna became a slut all of a sudden? It's funny how this country is making a slut like her richer and richer everyday, She is trying so hard to be someone else that shes Not! God knows who probably some idiot like Britney Spears or a porn star ...(Okay Riri we know you love sex so much)
Anyway just saying I am not jealous cz I now some 15yr old guys going to say that I am actually Way Hotter than her but if you watch her new music videos you will see what shes about ... Stupid Tranny Gosh I Hate That Whore now I know why Chris beat up *** lol | Yeah I Agree , She Is Too Ugly TO Be Jealous Of ! O_O lool
I Wish Chrish Brown Ended Her Career | LGBT: How can I get over this guy? Ok so I'm transsexual which is why this is complicated...
long story short I was in a mental hospital and met a guy and when he found out I like guys he asked me to be his roommate and told me that he knew how I was feeling because hes bi (or so he told me) and he didn't like how the rest of the guys there were treating me (they were being really mean to me) and at first I just thought he wanted to be friends but then he pressured me into doing sexual things with him.. He really made me think he liked me and he told me that he wouldn't even consider it to be gay because im trans. He really made me think he liked me and I was really vulnerable because he was all thuggish and I never had a guy that acts straight like me (not that I have anything against gay men but i just amn't attracted to gay men). We even done it in the shower! I really thought he liked me! and then he just started making fun of me and being mean to me and switched rooms and didnt talk to me at all! He told me the whole time he was imagining a "real" girl doing him and he said he wouldn't've done anything with me if he wasn't going to be sent off for a while and he hadn't had sex in over 6 months, and he told me he had a girlfriend! I am friends with his cousin so I thought I could trust him and he really made me think he liked me but he really hurt me! I think about it every day and everything keeps reminding me of him and how my first time was supposed to be special but instead it was with a total jerk who didn't care about me at all, he just cared about getting laid.
I feel really lonely though because idk if Ill ever be with a guy again and I don't want to die with my only sexual experience being with a complete asshole and what guy wants to date a tranny!?
The only "good" thing he said about me was that I gave the best head he ever had!!!
Now I feel like a stupid slut.
:( | Ignore the d1ckheads lurking on this section. We should really be pitying them, the fact that they spend so much time commenting and thumbing-down everything remotely open-minded here could not scream louder that they don't have lives. That or their penis is so teeny-weeny they feel like they have to constantly emasculate everyone else to make themselves feel more like a man. Could be both. Who cares.
Back to the question, I remember something someone once said that held a lot of truth and sense: People stick way too many expectations and glamorized ideals on their "first time". I mean, everyone can't expect their first time to be how they thought it would be cause or to hit a home run immediately, after-all, it is your first time and there still so many things you don't know. The chances that it will go well (or at least the way you expected) aren't high (not to be a downer, just realistic).
Obviously, your first time was exceptionally bad and you were used and hurt. Sadly, this isn't uncommon so you're not alone in this. My sister herself has REALLY bad taste in men, we even joke in the family that it's some kind of chronic disease (let's hope it's not contagious). She's had her fair share of jerks and grade A @ssholes, all of which were inconsiderate and more manipulative than the one before. Like you, her self-esteem also took a major hit after each time. But let me remind you something that I keep telling her each time she comes home heartbroken and on the verge of hating every man she sees from that point on, of anyone that should be ashamed or made to feel like they're worth sh1t, it's the douche bag and him alone. He's the one that did this to you and he alone should be blamed, not you or guys as a whole. Not every guy you will meet later on will be a jerkoff who thinks only with his d1ck. There's a lot of awesome people out there and I like to think that the "good guys" outnumber the bad ones. Don't let your experience with him potentially ruin every relationship you'll have in the future and don't let him demoralize you, he may have used you but you still have the power over yourself.
And hey, "gay men" don't enjoy being stereotyped any more than transsexuals do and "gay men" don't act in an unison like some weird, remote-controlled, uni-mind robot army, lol. Yeah, some homosexuals are effeminate (those tend to be the most obvious/noticeable ones and the ones people remember the most as "gay"), nothing wrong with that like you said, but a lot of us are stereotypically masculine as well (and we are the ones that aren't in mainstream media as much and are the ones that are easily forgotten cause we're not as outrageous or have flambouyant, bright personalities or, more often, simply written off as "oh, he's straight" before even being asked). However, a vast majority of us have various degrees of shared masculine and feminine qualities...like most people do, gay or straight, regardless of race, sexuality or background. And that is straight off my psychology lecture and the American Psychological Association, so it should be pretty legit.
At some point, you need to realize that he's not worth wasting your thoughts on and that you can do better things with your time. But remember that it's completely ok to take time to recover from this. You were unfairly hurt and like any functioning human, emotional wounds take time to heal like any phsical wound. But like I said before, it's your choice whether you're going to let it cripple you. You can help with the healing processs by talking to a trusted friend about what you're going through or through anything to express what emotions you're feeling. A friend of mine used his experiences of being seriously abused in his previous adopted family and turned it into a pretty bad-@ss song. We made a documentary about the subject and we both came out of it feeling like it was very therapeutic for us. Also, get out there and have fun, too. This can mean hanging out with your friends more, finding a hobby or something new to be passionate about, starting a project you've always wanted to, etc. Just anything that will get you busy enough so you don't spend all day moping around in the house and over-thinking things.
And what guy wants to date a tranny? Like you mentioned, you've only had your first time (as bad as it was) which, to be honest, probably means you haven't gotten much experience in the dating world yet. Don't look down it when you've only just begun. Things have a way of surprising you when you're not expecting it. Have you heard of pansexuals? They're growing in numbers, y'know.
At the very least, think of this as a lesson learned on How to Recognize and Avoid @ssholes 101. And don't worry so much about experiencing that one, special time with someone. Stuff like that comes naturally and in it's on time. And whether you find it on your 3rd or even 6th try, it doesn't matter cause they're all just numbers. All that matter is that you have found that one special person you can share something meaningful with. And you're NOT going to die with this as your only sexual experience, that's just overly pessimistic and unrealistic. You're young and odds are you've got many happy f**ks ahead of you (meaningful ones, mind you). And I find your slut comment ironic. Wasn't he the one that put all the effort, pretending and manipulating, just to get laid? I would think that would make him a dirty man-slut...come to think of it, I would check for STDs if I were you, god knows where he's been.
Hope this helped and I wish you all the best of luck! | Whats wrong with me am I gay amd I bi am I what? Lately I seem attarcted to men but only if they are cross dressers. I am also attarcted to women and trannies. There was a time when I guess like many men there was an attarction to trannies but I was really into women and wanted to marry etc etc. But women have only hurt me. I've confessed my love a few time to be rejected . I've never really been in a relationship and Im almost a 40 year old virgin. Over time without love I've become a freak.Pleasure means more to me than a relationship. I can't seem to commit to anyone now. I was never that way before. I have talked to shemales online and realize I am more attarcted to them as well as some men in drag. During my teens I even entertained crossdressing. Sometimes I do meet a girl that I like, but I've been hurt so many times I think my interest in women is not what it was even when I meet a really nice one its hard to believe anymore. I'm a big guy and I have decided to lose weight . After that I am undcided about who I will date or even if I will stay male. Maybe I will even become a tranny. I just wish things were simple. Maybe I am damaged goods now when it comes to relationships and sexuality, but whatever. I guess I'll either find true love and settle down. Be a slut, or maybe an abstinent tgirl. | It sounds like you need some help that is beyond the Yahoo community.
Time to call up a counselor. |
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