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Is he going to cheat on me? Im driving myself and him mad with my paranoia, pls help!? Ok pretty long story but will try to keep it short. We are both in our twenties, been together for 4 years...hes never physically cheated on me, im sure of that, but he has previously joined a swinger site (with a very explicit homepage about himself), i found loads of email correspondence with other women, talking very sexually, one arranging to meet a couple for a threesome (he told me he only done that for a joke and wouldnt have gone through with it), i caught him masturbating online with another girl via msn, calling sex lines etc etc.
He always apologises and says hes sorry and he would never physically cheat on me. Its driven me to the point of crazyness, i check his phone, email etc (and normally find something!!) though not for the past 8 months or so. Im so paranoid that I dont even want him looking at other women, this is not a healthy relationship but I love him so much and dont want to lose him and believe that he loves me too. Does he have a sexual problem?! | Does he have a problem? Not really. In reality he's a pretty normal 20-something guy that is trying to get laid anywhere he can at anybodies expense. His sex drive is running his life, not the other way around as it should be.
And it's not that you're not enough.... nothing is enough for him at this stage in his life. He could be getting it 10 times a day in 200 different ways and it still wouldn't be enough. He's being young, dumb, and full of c**.
The issue here is that he a) is lying to you about all of it, and b) he has no intention of changing. He wants to be in a relationship with you, but he doesn't want to do the things that will make you comfortable in that relationship. He doesn't respect your boundaries. What he is doing is not necessarily wrong, it's just wrong for you (it may be just what another woman wants) and he doesn't acknowledge that or even seem to care about your feelings regarding it.
Personally, I don't think he is ready for a committed relationship. He's not emotionally mature and unselfish enough to be in one and care for anyone else's needs but his own. And you can't change him. I think at this point you two are just not on the same level of emotional and relationship maturity. In my opinion you'd be better-off moving-on to someone who's relationship goals more closely resemble yours, because simply, his don't and it's making you miserable. | Is this cheating? need help!? I went to yahoo homepage where my fiancee of 6 great years was logged in last night. I went to sign out so I could check my mail and when the mouse scrolled over the mail button, his latest messages were right there to see. I found something from adult friend finder. At first I thought it was an ad but it turns out he has an account there and I cracked his password easily. Under his profile info, it says hed prefer not to say what marital status he has. Also he chose to join under their options for 1 on 1 sex and email and sexy chat. The worst is he wrote a paragraph introducing himself and I cant even repeat what it said but basically what he looks for in a woman weight and what sexual things he likes in a woman. Im so mortifyed and betrayed. Hes had this adult friend finder account for 2 months and he kept it from me! I know this is a site for swingers and people looking for sex. What do I do and most of all how do I confront it? I know he'll be angry, I am. Help please! | | If He Hasnt Already He's On His Way To Cheating. Im Sorry This Has Happened To You. I'm A Guy That Plays Around And It's A Red Flag To Me When I See You've Been Engaged 6 Years. Unless He Thinks You've Been Nosey In The Past. Though I'd Think There Would Be Better Ways To Catch You Than That. You're Not The One Doing Wrong Here However, Don't Lose Site Of That. You'll Need To Confront Him With It Somehow. Maybe Leave Evidence Somehow, Non Verbal, That You've Revealed The Secret. I'm Sure He's Rehearsed An Explanation. Again I'm Sorry This Happened To You And Very Best Wishes That It Works Out For You. |
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