Do you think a bdsm slave could be pushed to kill themselves if denied your love and abandoned ? I was just wondering because believe it or not this BDSM lifestyle is really emotional..If you Master/Mistress was to abandon you and move on to another slave would you kill yourself or do you think they would kill themselves (feeling helpless and Unloved, Rejected etc.) |
| I myself am not engaged in this lifestyle, but i'll try my best. Well, I personally would not kill my self, but their lifestyle might be different from mine. Me personally though, lets say this, my girlfriend of 4 years dumps me for another man. I wouldnt kill myself. I would probably be in a tough position, but I would eventually move on. I would hope that people engaged in this lifestyle would have the courage to move on with their lives. But i understand how things could be emotional |
How to properly train my bdsm slave ? How to properly train my bdsm slave ?
Okay so im new to this but i do hope this topic is YA approp.I was really wondering since i am really interested in bdsm and "owning" a mans emotions, actions, tone of voice and a submissive man that possibly I need to perfect my Femdom skills!;) All SERIOUS tips will be valued ... And oh yeah i love being a freak!;) |
| You need to strap one on and treat him like your B****. |
I am a guy who waxes his body and also has regular brazlian waxing done , i am also a bdsm slave? i dance ballet also. i am owned by a dominant blk older woman who is a sadist , that requires me to dress as a woman. i experience periods where i become discouraged but i always find the strength to continue on. as an owned slave, i have found a certain happiness and contentment on my knees at her feet. i would like to other bdsm slaves experiences and hopes. |
I'm not a slave... well i can be sometimes when i want to be...
im both... but i'm more Dominant. I'm a Sadomasochist. :) my first victim was my very own teacher |
How do I be a better BDSM slave? Tips,tricks and even ideas for punishments are needed. |
| I'm not sure why you are asking the question, it should be up to your Master to think up these things and then use them on you as needed. You might need a new Dom |
How can we integrate diapers into a Master/slave BDSM relationship? How can I suggest this to my Master? I want him to put me into diapers. |
First off I will tell you that 'kwhip3' is living in a fantasy land! I am a player in the real life community and have a major problem with people like 'kwhip3' who live in a fantasy land this is real life. The biggest thing in D/s relationships and any relationship there has to be enjoyments for both.
I suggest when you are talking about past scenes or things you like just say something like "I am wondering if you would like to try me wearing a diaper. Its really hot to me." |
What are some good ways to start training a sissy slave in BDSM? I have a sissy/bf and we have been dating for about 3 almost four months.She(he) and I agree to different types of punishment but I need really great tips on training.Ive been googling potty training info and maid outfits but what else? |
You know, I could actually give a long and serious answer to this but people on the internets (especially Y!A) have a problem with me being a bit of a deviant.
Suggestions:
- strap-on
- whips
- Japanese bondage rope (they come in pretty colours)
Not going to go into any more detail until I figure out if this is a serious question or not. Anyway strap-ons are hilarious regardless. |
What makes a good dominatrix or a good slave/submissive ?I am asking those of you in the BDSM lifestyle? What makes a good dominatrix,slave or submissive I am intrested in hearing answers about one or the other or both ?What makes a good one what makes a bad one ?What makes someone a fake? |
A good person in this lifestyle is one who is dedicated to the lifestyle, who will think about the other person's needs and not just their own. Someone who is not just in it for the "kinky sex".
This lifestyle is not about sex, it is about control. The willingness of a submissive to give up that control and place it in the hands of a willing dominant. The submissive has to trust that the dominant will not abuse that control and the dominant has to trust that the submissive is going to actually relinquish control.
A fake is someone who enters into the lifestyle only to satisfy their own selfish needs without thought or care to anyone else.
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Bdsm slave/submissive? Is their any bdsm foot slaves on here?
(this is meant for a male sub w/ female Dom but anyone is more than welcome to answer)
I have a few questions
1.what does your mistress make you do?
2.how did you meet your mistress
3.do you live with your mistress
4.do you do house work and such for your mistress?
5.do you and your mistress ever get intimate
6.how does your mistress punish you?
7.how do you worship your mistress
8.how long have you been a slave for?
I have lots more questions email me at football60k@yahoo.com |
| i'm with that so all i need is a lesbian to dominate me |
Girls: do you find it ok to play the "slave" role with your bf. in bdsm sexual relationship? I like to be the master and wonder if the girl would enjoy such sexual relationship being the "slave", you know that BDSM sexual relationship is only a desire, and that it do not mean that I regard my gf less than me ..... |
| I very much enjoy it. But any kind of BDSM relationship must be consensual, and the slave must have a safe word and you must respect her boundaries. There must be a discussion beforehand of how things will go and then you can get into your roles. |